James Morris Coulehan

February 20, 1942 - January 21, 2026

James Morris Coulehan, 83, left this world peacefully on January 21, 2026, surrounded by the love of his family, leaving behind a legacy defined by devotion, strong morals and integrity, curiosity, quiet strength, selflessness, and kindness.

James, “Jim,” was born on February 20, 1942 in Pittsburgh, PA, the son of Morris and Marcella Gardner Coulehan.

He was above all else, a committed family man and pet owner. Through every stage of life, he loved and supported his children with steadfast dedication.  In difficult times, his stoic nature provided strength and reliability to support all in need. In joyful moments, his easy laughter reminded everyone around him that happiness did not need to be loud to be deeply felt. Always up for a deep intellectual conversation, he never missed an opportunity to slip a witty comment in to keep the mood light. Though not gregarious by nature, his warmth and good humor were unmistakable to those who knew him well.

After graduating from high school, Jim entered the US Air Force, beginning a chapter of life that took him around the world. He lived in London, Hawaii, and Korea, experiences that broadened his perspective and shaped his disciplined, thoughtful approach to life. Eventually, he returned to Virginia, where he met the love of his life, Patricia, “Pat.” Together they settled on a farm in Floyd County, VA, establishing deep roots in the community and raising their four children in a home built on love, hard work, and mutual respect.

By trade, Jim was a computer engineer for more than 40 years. He had a natural gift for understanding how things worked, a curiosity that extended far beyond his profession. His “projects” were legendary – ranging from furniture building to plumbing and electrical work – he single-handedly built the better part of the family home. He approached each project with careful study before ever picking up a tool. He loved trips into town to track down the perfect part or tool, always eager to solve the next problem. A skilled woodworker, he left tangible reminders of his craftsmanship in the homes of his loved ones.

Some of our most cherished memories are the quiet ones. Whether playing catch in the yard or a game of cards after dinner, conversations were always filled with good-natured competition and lots laughter. Jim’s life was marked not by grand gestures, but by constancy, thoughtfulness, and care. He showed his love through presence, patience, and the work of his hands. His legacy lives on in the family he raised, the home he built, the lessons he taught, and the countless things he fixed – both broken things and, more importantly, moments that needed steadiness and grace.

He will be deeply missed and forever remembered by his family. He is survived by his loving wife, Pat, his children, Amy Coulehan, Rebecca Coulehan, Mike Coulehan (and wife Carol Coulehan), and Patrick Coulehan (and Krista Geller) and his grandchildren, Kaleb Grindstaff, Skylar Grindstaff, Ainsley Tozier, Ella Tozier, Harrison Coulehan, Hattie Coulehan and Huxley Coulehan. He is also survived by his sister, Christine Storch, as well as many nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his brother, Vincent (“Vinnie”) Coulehan.

A private family graveside service will take place at a later date. The family is sincerely grateful for your kindness, prayers, and support during this time. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Floyd County Rescue Squad.

Ann Henley and myself are So sorry for your loss. We are praying for your peace.

Mike and family, we are so very sorry for your great loss. We are praying for your family.

Our hearts are so saddened for each of you at the loss of Jim. Please be assured that each of you are in our prayers at this time. We have wonderful memories that we will cherish forever of the times our families lives connected. As Jim and Lloyd served together in the Virginia Army National Guard…Our son Travis became your extra child as him and Patrick became friends and spent my hours at your home. Lots of love, hugs and prayers to each of you. ❤️

What a great man, wonderful husband and father - and a good friend. I cannot express how much Jim meant to me - a brother. Thinking of you Pat and crew. Love all you so much.