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"Tom" Thomas Vanston O' Neill

September 12, 1942 - November 12, 2019

Thomas Vanston O’Neill of Floyd passed away peacefully in his home surrounded by his family and his dogs on Tuesday, November 12, 2019. Tom was a Graduate of Virginia Tech, and he served in the U.S. Navy as a Lieutenant. Tom is preceded in death by his brother, Danny O’Neill. He is survived by his wife Jeanie Harman O’Neill; three children, Doc O’Neill (Jennifer), Jabe O’Neill (Marley), Brennen Wade (Mike); five grandchildren, Sam O’Neill, Thomas O’Neill, Lillie O’Neill, Esme O’Neill, Rory O’Neill; siblings, Matt O’Neill, Shelia Williams, Chris O’Neill, Cathy Frazier; along with numerous nieces and nephews. In honor of Tom and his volunteer work, donations can be made to Plenty! at 192 Elephant Curve Rd NW, Floyd, VA 24091. Plenty! provides meals for families in need. The family would like to sincerely thank the community of Floyd for all their kindness and support. A memorial service will be held on Saturday December 7, 2019 at 3 pm at Floyd United Methodist Church. Tom loved his family, his five o’clock, being a member of the Floyd community, and being a member of the Floyd United Methodist Church choir. His kindness, his smile, and his jokes will be missed.


Guest book

Ron and Joyce Yearout

Willis VA
November 13, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. We are praying for you. May God bring you peace and comfort.


Linda Robertson

Cheraw Sc
November 13, 2019


Susan Icove

Floyd, VA
November 13, 2019

So sorry for you loss Jeanie. Tom was alway such a bright light and friendly soul. He will be missed.


Lyndall howell

Bassett, va
November 13, 2019

I am so very sorry to hear about Tom passing. I am praying for the family and will miss him


Lars Petterson

Asheville, NC
November 13, 2019

Our sincere condolences to the O’Neill Clan. Marion and Lars Petterson


John and Deborah Carter

Floyd, VA
November 13, 2019

Jeanie, Doc, Jabe and Brennan, we are so sorry for the loss of Tom. I know it is hard and we will keep you in our prayers.


Shirleyann Burgess

Floyd
November 14, 2019

My deepest condolences. Tom always had a smile when he showed up at my office, even when he was in much pain. He will be missed. Love to Jeanie and her family.


candis and Calvin Griffin

columbia, SC
November 14, 2019

We will always remember Tom. May the beauty of your memories heal your broken hearts.... Lovingly, Candy and Chip


Melodie A Pogue

Floyd
November 14, 2019

My deepest condolences to Jeannie and her family. Tom was a great asset to the community and will be truly missed.


Ben Harmon

Olive Hill, KY
November 14, 2019

Jeanie, I'm so very sorry for your great loss. Many prayers for you, your family, and your many friends. Ben


Megan Scholz

Charlotte, NC
November 14, 2019

Tom will be missed by the whole Floyd community and those of us who have scattered, but still consider Floyd home. Sending all my love to the O’Neill family.


LYNN CAULEY

Roanoke, VA
November 14, 2019

Tom was one of my favorite co-workers at Graham White, always had a joke, a song or a memory to share. His laugh was contagious. His smile was the best. So sorry to hear about his passing. Hope he continues on in heaven with his fun and vivacious personality. Love and prayers to your all


Plenty!

Floyd, VA
November 14, 2019

We will miss our dear friend and faithful volunteer. Tom was a sweet, dear man and a much beloved member of the Plenty! family. With love, Plenty! volunteers, patrons and staff


Laura Dutton

Floyd, VA
November 14, 2019

My most sincere condolences to Tom’s family as well as the many, many others who were lucky enough to know him. He will be dearly missed by myself and the rest of his Plenty! family. Thank you for everything Tom.


Stewart and Mary Lou Bruce

Atlanta, GA
November 14, 2019

Jeannie, Doc, Jabe, Brennan and family You are in our thoughts and prayers and will remain so! We found out about Tom's illness in the last week and were devastated! Tom was a man with many talents and gifts. His presence made a lasting, positive impression on me and so many who stood beside him personally and professionally through the years. His sense of humor, infectous smile, gift of conversation, strong and purposeful voice, patience and helpfulness will forever be remembered! Mary Lou and I are in Atlanta this fall to be close to kids and grandkids. We will keep our eyes and ears open for Tom's service announcement. Peace be with you, Stewart and Mary Lou


Jane and Tim Kelly, Christine and Whit Kelly, Rebecca and Tommy Kelly, Cary Kelly, Anna and Oliver Kelly

Salem, VA
November 14, 2019

A good run, my friend. See you later....


Sheila White


November 15, 2019

I am so very sorry for your lost. I will keep you all in my prayers


Vince Hatcher

Bent Mountain, VA
November 15, 2019

Our sincere condolences to the O’Neill family.


Donna Baker

Floyd, VA
November 15, 2019

The residents of Pine Ridge Apartments send their deepest condolences for the loss of a wonderful person. Tom enjoyed delivering the Wednesday meal during the summer to the residents to make sure they had a hot meal. He will be greatly missed. We send our prayers to the family to help them heal during this loss. He may no longer be with us, but his memories will live on forever. Donna Baker Tenant Council President Pine Ridge Apartments


Michael Grissom

Roanoke
November 16, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I am happy to say he was a dear friend. Tom and I shared many business trips, bicycle rides and a few 5 o'clock celebrations together. Tom's memory will always bring a smile and a story. The family will remain in our thoughts and Prayers.


Amy Adams

Floyd, VA
November 17, 2019

Your passing came as quite a shock to me. It was an honor to serve with you in the Lions Club. I always appreciated your willingness to move the Club forward. Your sense of humor clearly kept the Club going. I will miss you as I am certain that others will too. Rest In Piece.


Sandra Gilhuly

Roanoke,Va
November 18, 2019

Prayers are with you and your family


Diane Gray

Floyd
November 18, 2019

Jeanie, I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing, he has been a staple in Floyd for many years. You guys were blessed to have each other and your wonderful family. Thinking of you, Diane


JoAnn Maloney

Mequon,Wi
November 18, 2019

Our sincere sympathy to all the O'Neills. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. JoAnn,Stefaney,Sean,Patraic and Julie Maloney


April Bourgois

FLOYD
November 18, 2019

Tom was such a stalwart of Plenty and will be deeply missed by all of us who knew him through that organization. May his family find peace in his passing and experience the love his community has for him.


Ben Moser

Takoma Park, MD
November 24, 2019

Jeanie, Doc, Jabe and Brennan, I am sorry to hear of your loss. Even though my memories of Tom are many years old, I remember him fondly. Thinking of you and hope your families are all feeling strength and comfort, together. -Ben Moser


Billy and Linda Motley

Puerto Armuelles, Panama
November 24, 2019

Jeannie please accept our condolences for your loss. We enjoyed getting to know Tom. May the peace of the Lord be with you and your family.


Donna Polseno

Floyd
December 07, 2019

Dear Jeannie, I have kept you in my heart and stopped by the house to try and see you several times in the last few weeks. Tom was an incredible man and he will be truly missed. Rick will be there today, as I am away on a trip planned for a year. But I will find you soon and I send my love and condolences. Affectionately, Donna


ellen shankin

floyd
December 07, 2019

i am so sorry to hear of Tom's death. i know you are surrounded by love and i add my love and care to the embrace of the community. love brad and ellen


Susanne Becker

floyd, VA
December 07, 2019

Dear Jeannie and family, my thoughts are with you in this hard time of loss. Tom was always so fun to follow in auctions for the Humane society and other fundraising events around Floyd. He will be much missed.