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Edward Patrick Havard

March 17, 1961 - September 04, 2025

Edward Patrick Havard, 64, passed from this earthly life on Wednesday, September 4, 2025, at home in Meadows of Dan, Virginia.

Known for his sweet, good nature, his deep, resonant laugh, his unparalleled patience, his love of the natural world (particularly Apis mellifera, the small and mighty honeybee), and deep devotion to spiritual understanding, Ed was a loving husband, loyal friend, amazing father, beautiful soul and fearless adventurer.

Born in New Rochelle, New York on St. Patrick’s Day, 1961, the son of Marilyn Busic Havard and James E. Havard, Ed grew up in the Hudson Valley of New York. He was a graduate of Ossining High School, SUNY Oneonta, and earned his master’s degree at Syracuse University.

An athlete and scholar, Ed played high school football, collegiate lacrosse, ran long distance, and could explain complex scientific theories in a way even his artistic wife and friends could understand.

Ed was a man who followed his dreams and encouraged others to follow theirs. He loved to travel and counted among his treasured memories, time spent with his family exploring Ireland, Wales, England, Iceland, France, Italy, and living in Costa Rica, where he taught at the Monteverde Friends School.

A kind and patient teacher, Ed worked with special needs students and taught high school physics. A lifeguard and water-safety instructor, he was honored to teach adults to swim and gain confidence in their abilities. In his professional life, Ed was an analytical chemist. After retirement, he followed his true calling as a Christian Science practitioner, helping others heal through prayer.

As a beekeeper, Ed spent hours in the garden building hives and tending to his bees. His calm nature could soothe animals and people alike. A favorite family memory was of finding Ed napping in the apiary, among the many busy hives, no veil or suit, completely happy and thoroughly at ease.

Ed was pre-deceased by his parents, Marilyn Busic Havard and James E. Havard, and brother, Michael J. Havard. He is survived by his wife, Rita Murphy, and son, Liam Havard of Meadows of Dan, VA, brother Chris (Lois) Havard of Princeton, NJ, brother-in-law Thomas J. Murphy of Plymouth, MA, sister-in-law, Judith (Michael) Havard of New Canaan, CT, Nephews: Samuel, Henry, Cole, Jack (Elizabeth), niece Taylor Havard, and many dear Havard relatives.

Ed was loved, honored, cherished and cared for by his family and friends, the wonderful staff of Good Samaritan Hospice and Sheila S. Strauss Hospice House, Shannon Lytton, Teresa Bailey, Mary Lee Gill, Todd Triplett, Sudha Wilburn, Mark Bowman, his wife, Rita, and most especially his loving son, Liam.

In place of flowers, donations may be made to Good Samaritan Hospice of Roanoke, Spikenard Farm Honeybee Sanctuary of Floyd, or New Skete Monastery of New York.

Ed loved the Blue Ridge Mountains, yet his heart remained in the Green Mountains of Vermont, where a private family memorial is planned. 


Guest book

Amber Bakos

GS IPU
September 11, 2025

I want to say thank you for the opportunity and honor to care for ED in the IPU of Good Sam, Ed was always a light, his love,kindness and patience transformed my heart in many ways, I learned alot when I had ed as a patient especially patience, Ed will be greatly missed, his laugh was contagiuos and inviting. I will miss him so much yet have so much joy in my heart that he is finally home!


Dennis Mino

Congers, NY
September 11, 2025

Ed was a wonderful cousin to grow up with. I remember many times hanging out with him and Michael and Chris in Ossining, NY. We had so many wonderful memories growing up, getting into trouble, and just having lots of laughs. Always remember Ed‘s deep voice and a heart of gold. I will truly miss him.


Ted Montgomery

Charlotte VT
September 12, 2025

Ed was a pleasure to have as a neighbor in the Ten Stones Community in Vermont...his sweet ways were always present. Godspeed Ed!


Marjorie Ostrander

Syracuse
September 12, 2025

Rita and Liam We are so sorry for the loss of husband and father. Bob and I cherished the time Ed worked on his masters along side Bob. Our girls adored him and they got so excited to see him. The memory of our last time together in our home will be forever etched in my mind. We mourn with you and we will pray for strength and comfort during this difficult time. Sending hugs!!!


Jim Havard

Washington, DC
September 13, 2025

What a lovely tribute for Ed. My heart goes out to Rita, Liam and Chris and all who loved and will dearly miss Ed. I still think so fondly of the times that Ed stayed with the Havard family on Park Lane, in Purchase, NY. I will miss you, dear Ed.


Krista Vaughn

GSH IPU
September 19, 2025

Ed was our first patient here at the IPU, and he will leave a lasting effect on all of our hearts forever. Despite all of his health challenges, he always had a positive attitude and a smile on his face. His faith in the lord was inspiring and showed throughout him each day. I will miss seeing him, getting to hold his hands while talking with him, and hearing his laugh. I am grateful for the opportunity to have met him and being able to help provide care for him. We will all miss you, Ed. <3 rest easy


Gary @ Anne Mino

Newtown, PA
October 12, 2025

Though many miles separate us, Rita, please know that Ed is with us this very moment: I can still hear his deep, easy laugh and feel the warmth of his joyful, devil-may-care spirit even now. So many great memories of him when we were growing up with the whole family. Rest well, Ed, you deserve it.